Etiquette & Culture

Understanding China’s etiquette and cultural norms helps you travel confidently, avoid misunderstandings, and connect more naturally with local people. While China is a modern and diverse country, certain traditional values and distinctive everyday manners still shape social interactions.

1. Greetings and social interactions
When meeting someone, especially for the first time, a polite greeting shows respect. It’s best to greet elders or the most senior person first, and a slight nod or gentle handshake is usually preferred over hugs or firm grips. Addressing someone by their title plus surname (e.g., “Mr Li” or “Ms Wang”) is more formal and appreciated than using first names. Physical contact like hugging or back slapping is uncommon in public and can make people uncomfortable.

2. Table manners and dining culture
Food plays a central role in Chinese culture, and meals are often shared with others. Wait for the host to begin eating or signal the start before you dig in. Many dishes are placed in the center to share — use serving chopsticks or spoons if provided. Never stick your chopsticks upright in a bowl of rice, as this resembles incense stick offerings at funerals. If you are not good at using chopsticks, feel free to ask for a spoon or fork.

3. Gift-giving and hospitality
If you’re invited to someone’s home, bringing a small gift like fruit, tea, or a local souvenir is a nice gesture. When offering a gift, present it with both hands as a sign of respect, and it’s common for the recipient to initially refuse before graciously accepting. Avoid gifts that carry unlucky meanings — such as clocks or white flowers (both associated with funerals and mourning).

4. Respecting personal and public norms
Chinese culture places high value on the idea of maintaining dignity and respect in social situations (saving “face”). Being on time shows respect. Try never to be late. Avoid embarrassing or criticizing others publicly, and steer clear of sensitive topics such as politics, income, or controversial historical issues. Using both hands when receiving something important, like a business card or a gift, is seen as courteous and thoughtful.

5. Daily public behavior
In busy urban spaces like metros, markets, or tourist attractions, patience and calmness are important. Queues are common, and although crowds can be dense, waiting your turn quietly and giving way to seniors or children is respectful. Loud or confrontational behavior in public is generally frowned upon.

By observing these everyday cultural norms, you show respect for local traditions and values—something Chinese people notice and appreciate. With a bit of cultural awareness and a respectful attitude, your time in China will be richer and more rewarding.